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Let me start asking you a simple enough question: What would you
love to have in life? Easy right. Your answer may vary from a sexy
beach body to getting promoted to having a healthy
Let me start asking you a simple enough question: What would you love to have in life? Easy right. Your answer may vary from a sexy beach body to getting promoted to having a healthy relationship. All in all, the common answer is that you want to be happy and content.
A more interesting question, a question that perhaps you have never considered before, is what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.
Everybody wants that promotion but nobody wants to work 60 hours a week. Everyone wants that sexy beach body but no one wants to stress it out in gym for hours and hours. Everybody wants a healthy relation but are not ready to deal with the endless insecurities and the dramatic fights and those long conversations.
Happiness requires struggle. The positive is the side effect of handling the negative. You can only avoid negative experiences for so long before they come roaring back to life.
You have to be in love with the process and not the end results. Because as you see the one's with that dashing body loves to work out and looks forward going to gym every day. The one who can work 60 hours a day apart from that long commute, will get the next promotion.
Because if you want the benefits of something in life, you have to also want the costs. So instead of day dreaming about the end result, find something that you would love to struggle for.T
his is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely.