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There was a time when all us could do anything, wear anything,
eat anything and not feel bad about it. A time when going out and
playing in the sun with friends was the greatest thing in life. As
There was a time when all us could do anything, wear anything, eat anything and not feel bad about it. A time when going out and playing in the sun with friends was the greatest thing in life. As children we have no restrictions, a little chubbiness is cute and people wont stop fawning over you.
So what is it that changes as we grow up? Why is it that suddenly there is a pressure on you to fit in, to confine to the set standards existing in the society? As a child, you could dream of being anything you wanted and the sky was the limit but as you grow up, you are expected to stick to the professions that everyone else wants you to peruse.
Somewhere between this time, we forget to love ourselves. We are so busy trying to fit into the frame set by the society that we choose to ignore the fact that it might not be best suited for us. We limit our imagination and creativity because we feel that they are not needed. We become so used to being judged by other people that we forget that we are our own person. We forget that the opinion of other people doesnt really matter that much, that we shouldnt stop doing things that we love just because others have a problem with it.
Why feel guilty while eating that extra slice of pizza when you clearly love it? So what you gain another pound, its better than denying yourself the small joys in life.
As we grow we forget to love ourselves the way we did as kids. We forget that its our life and we can do whatever we want with it. The journey to self-love and discovery is hard as we are so used to doing things that make others happy. This has got to stop, start putting your happiness before others. Sometimes you might feel like giving up because it is easier to pretend but this is just a sign to fight harder. Fight till you come out the other side of the tunnel.
Just remember, at the end of the day it is you whos happiness is important. It is you who has to live your life and not others. Do things that make you happy. Be comfortable in your own skin and most importantly dont let the preferences of other people influence you to the extent that you start losing your individual identity.