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If a kid is shy and quiet, he is forced to act bold and outgoing
because society has thought us that to be successful and happy, one
must be extroverted. Parents think its alienated to not mingle
If a kid is shy and quiet, he is forced to act bold and outgoing because society has thought us that to be successful and happy, one must be extroverted. Parents think its alienated to not mingle with people and to not talk much. The introverts are always forced to act like extroverts instead of acting like their own selves because it is assumed that being introverted is being anti-social when actually it is being differently social.
Imagine a place filled with extroverts, do you think that you would like it when everyone in the group wants to talk and no one wants to listen? Dont you think that it is the blend of the two that really creates the best place to live?
These days extroverts are considered better leaders in workplaces but the recent research shows that in certain circumstances introverts make better leaders! The extroverted leaders, almost without realizing become more dominant and they try to put their stamp on things while introverts give a chance for the employees to explore their imagination and tackle a particular problem in their own way.
Introverts usually dont think it is necessary to argue on something. They give up if you cannot understand what they are trying to tell because they think it is not right to force their opinion on you! Whenever they are made fun of, they ignore you. Not because they cant stand up for themselves but because they dont want to dig more into it and make it an issue. They do have views and opinions about everything in the world, which are intense and deep. They just dont think it is necessary to share it with the world. Which I think is not wrong at all.
Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Mahatma Gandhi, Mark Zuckerberg, Emma Watson and many more are introverts. Do you think being introverted has stopped them from achieving something or being happy?
Introvertism is a part of the personality just as crucial as your gender or race. Energy, enthusiasm, excitement combined with being grounded, the ability to listen, strength and calm makes an Introvert. Let us try not to suppress or change them but instead allow them to bloom the way they are destined to.